Dollymopp NEWBIE PAGE
I have been very very honoured to be chosen as some boys ‘first ever’ time, and also some boys first ever visit to see a lady like me..That makes me feel very special indeed, and for all my exuberance and humour in other parts here, I do have a serious side too, and I am very considerate of people’s feelings and nerves. Hey..if you met me at a bustop, you wouldn’t be nervous at all.
You may like my photos, but some people have felt more comfortable with me in a shirt and jeans, and asked if I can just wear that..of course I can. It’s a bit less intimidating, I guess.
You may not be a ‘boy’ but I call you all, ‘my boys’. If you ever choose to call me, we will have a good chat, to establish if this is a good idea for you. If you do decide to go ahead, then be assured our chat will soothe a lot of your worries. I have sometimes decided that a caller is too upset at a GF or wife, or some other reason, and that I am not the best option at that moment. But sometimes, I am a good option. I just want to do the right thing, so.. talk to me.
I also have access for disabled visitors, and wheelchairs, so don’t be afraid to ask! I have experience of many different types of abilities.
Right, some of my thoughts….
First of all..you have found this site of mines..so I take it you were sort of thinking and searching for a woman like me?
I might not be ‘your thing’ but I hope I will maybe answer some stuff that you were thinking about, set you on a decent path at least, should you want to go further.
The internet is a great place to find stuff, it’s also a dangerous quagmire of lies and deceit. Especially in what I do.
I suggest to you that you don’t just dive in, and think with your ‘below the belt’ regions.
Read a lot, research a lot, read sites/forums, join in with the chat, read posts, read reviews.
The longest known sites to check are-
www.punternet.com (I write and list there, very busy forum)
www.punterlink.com (I write and list there most, I’m on forum)
www.punterlink.co.uk ( a directory for the one above)
www.sexyindependentescorts.com (I list there)
www.london-independents.com (I list there)
www.cherrygirls.co.uk (I have listed there, a very professional site, girls are verified as genuine, face to face, in a meeting by office staff)
www.captain69.co.uk (paid for site, I write on forum and list there)
There are many others, more regional, you will find them on my blog roll.
Some people in chat forums are lovely, but as in ‘real life’ some don’t get on either. That’s life! In and out of this world too.
It’s exciting and scary at the same time, but worth looking at. You can ‘lurk’ and read stuff without joining.
Some pics look like supermodels huh? You can meet Kate Moss in the East End for a few quid…hmm. Right…
I was stunned and speechless when I first saw some pics too. Some true, a lot aren’t.
There are sites that steal pics from mags, and real ladies sites etc. Especially ladies that don’t show faces. Easier to steal. I am quite difficult to doppelgang, lucky me. It happens a lot to genuine ladies though.
This is why I urge you to do research, for the good of yourself. Check www.tineye.com to see if the pics you are so enamoured by on some sites, are actually from another source. Mines should all come up connected to the name Dollymopp in various sites that I have linked to. But you might find that miss xyz’s site is actually showing stolen pics from the pages of Playboy, and she’s not miss xyz on them there. Good luck.
Get another separate email addy for your ‘fun’ and another mobile phone if you really plan to visit. Clear your cache and cookies on your computer. Then everything is safer for you, no questions.
You may be new, you may also be married or have a GF. So fix these tech things, if you are. Don’t mail from work! Unless you are the boss, and you know it’s ok to.
A decent level of lady would never cause you a problem, it is not in her interest to business wise, and …she simply doesn’t have time. But if someone can possibly check your phone or computer, then I suggest you cover that side first.
All scary stuff eh! Just groundwork…I will add some more safety tips when I think of them.
Now some nicer stuff!
You have found ‘the one’….!
I’m excited now, cos I know I have been ‘the one’ before!
Check her site, read it, and go with her preferred aproach, perhaps she likes an email first. Have her details in mind, where she is, her specific offer etc.
Introduce yourself, say that you have seen her site, you have read it, and that you are very interested in meeting. Suggest day and time to maybe call and arrange this firmly. Be polite, don’t do sexy talk, real men just don’t. Real men do lovely emails and calls. And we get excited! Lovely meetings then ensue.
(Some ladies have certain days that they are available and will advertise this on certain site sections, their site, and sometimes do tours. Touring is when a lady travels to other towns and rents an apartment or hotel room. On these days, the lady will possibly be available at short notice. )
Nice boys get to see ladies…
Sleazers do other things….ugh.
Men like this have the tag name of TW.
TW=timewaster. You don’t want to see that next to your phone number on site, do you?
Timewasters ask sexual questions and send graphic pictures of bodyparts, probably not their own either. New girls may fall for this, most ladies won’t though. Their descriptions and numbers will end up on a warnings listing on many sites. A lot will call from witheld numbers, and that is a sure fire TW!
Call or email when you say you will, there are exceptions on both sides, and a decent lady will do the right thing, so will a decent boy, within reason. (busy times get to us all, there is a certain amount of leeway).
Don’t withhold your phone number, you have ours, we expect the same trust. Again, ladies have no reason to be using your number for anything, it’s unproductive to her business to do so.
But if you detect super-flakiness, Kick it to the kerb, we do. Don’t waste your time. I don’t like the fact that there are flaky girls either…but there are!
There are loads and loads of nice lovely ones too, and if you are bright, you will find them. Good people float to the surface, you will find them.
I can’t say for all ladies, but I have half email, half call, for introductions. As long as you are polite, and decent, have a firm idea of a meeting in mind, you can’t go wrong. There is an instinct on both sides too, we know, and you know, if it’s a good idea.
So it’s the date of the meeting!
Make sure you have the map, fone is charged etc.
Don’t be early, but I like a call when my boy is on his way. I’m still faffing with hair/make up if you are early!
You have washed every crevice, trimmed and tidied up, got the best boxers on!
You arrive, and enter the boudoir…
She will be welcoming and smiling and taking your coat, offering something to drink..
No need to be nervous, your especially chosen lady knows stuff…she thinks it’s cute if you are nervous though..heehee.
It’s a great idea to let your lady see that you have placed her gift on the shelf/table, in an un-sealed envelope, you might want to go to the bathroom now…don’t make this a big deal, let her find it. Don’t feel odd. It’s the nicest way to do that.
Then…who knows?
If you have done the homework, I daresay, that you will have the time of your life.
